Hello you.
Looking for your sex drive?
Welcome to Desired State. We’re obsessed with giving women the right tools, knowledge + support to help them (re)connect with their sexual desire, and (re)ignite their sexual spark.
If you've lost your desire for sex and feel numb, disconnected, dread bedtime with your partner or think there might be something wrong with you because your libido isn't where it used to be... you're in the right place.
Do you want to feel alive, confident, and excited about sex again? Let’s begin.
Reclaiming Desire
✨Free Course✨
If you’re here looking for your sex drive, there’s something you need to know first...
Sexual desire isn't static or set like you may have been led to believe.
Instead, it is an element you have the power to activate.
And when you understand how desire really works, everything shifts.
Sign up to our course Reclaiming Desire(did we mention it’s completely free?) and discover:
The true science behind your sex drive
Clarity on what's causing your desire to dip- and why
A pathway for how to restore it.
Meet the Founder
Hi, I’m Laura. I am a Mum, a coach, VAWG expert and a passionate advocate for women’s rights.
I also have a phobia of wrinkly fingers. Yuck.
But more importantly, I launched Desired State as a platform to change the global narrative around sexual desire by helping women understand the science behind sexual desire- and how to use it to transform their sex + love lives.
I care deeply about this because my own journey to rediscover my libido and take ownership of my sexual story was life-changing.
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Want to want sex again?
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Want to want sex again?
✴︎ Want to want sex again? ✴︎ Want to want sex again?
Discover a safe space to talk about what you want from sex, and how to reconnect to your own desires.
Our 121 coaching is specifically designed for women that feel lost or confused why their desire for sex has faded, who know they WANT to want sex again.
We help you connect back to yourself by exploring what is standing in the way of feeling desire, and build your confidence to access and express who you are sexually.
Our Philosophy