Hello you.
Looking for your sex drive?.
Welcome to Desired State 💌
We’re obsessed with giving women the right tools, knowledge + support to help them (re)connect with their sexual desire.
If you're here because…
You’ve lost your desire for sex…
You feel numb, disconnected from yourself, and/ or unsure what you want in bed…
You dread bedtime with your partner because you’re worried it will lead to you having to reject them AGAIN….
Or you think there might be something wrong with you because your libido isn't where it used to be...
You’re in the right place.
We help women who’ve lost their sexual desire actually feel excited about sex again…
But if you’re here looking for your sex drive, there’s something you need to know first...
Almost everything you’ve been taught about sexual desire is wrong.
Sign up to our course Reclaiming Desire(did we mention it’s completely free?) and discover:
The true science behind how your sex drive actually works
Clarity on what's causing your desire to dip (and why it makes perfect sense you’re not in the mood!)
And a practical pathway for how you can want sex again!
Hi, I’m Laura.
And I lost my sex drive too!
(*Feels like the beginning of us introducing ourselves in some kind of rubbish secret club- like a version of Fight Club where we’re just not having any sex!)*
I experienced the lows of just not being interested in sex too.
I didn’t know what was wrong with me, felt like I was broken, and the ripple effects that this had on my confidence, my relationship and my connection to myself were heavy.
Over the last ten years, the journey to finding myself again (and a whole new sex education) has been life-changing.
And now I want to shout from the rooftops about what I found, so I launched Desired State as a platform that helps women understand the science behind sexual desire- and how to use it to transform their sex + love lives.
Want to WANT sex again?
Here’s how we help…
COMING SOON…
Our Philosophy
"Half of women have a low sex drive. So maybe the problem isn't women- it's our view of sexuality"- Sarah Barmak.
